Roxana Soica
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Debt is one of the most underestimated factors in separation planning. While most people focus on what assets they will keep, the debts accumulated during a marriage — and how they are handled at the time of separation — can have an equally significant impact on the financial outcome.
Proactive debt planning before or at the start of a separation allows you to understand your exposure, protect your credit, prevent your spouse from incurring further debt in your name, and structure your separation in a way that minimises long-term financial harm.
At Soica & Associates, our family lawyers help clients approach debt strategically at separation — so it does not become a financial crisis on top of an already difficult process. Contact us for a consultation.
Under Ontario’s Family Law Act, debts reduce a spouse’s net family property (NFP) — the calculation used to determine the equalization payment. Specifically, each spouse’s NFP is calculated by taking the total value of their assets on the date of separation, subtracting their debts on that date, and then deducting the value of property they owned at the date of marriage. The spouse with the higher NFP pays the other spouse half the difference.
This means that the more debt you carry on the date of separation, the lower your NFP — and the less you may owe in equalization to the other spouse. Conversely, if your spouse is carrying significant debt, their NFP is reduced, which can affect how much equalization they are owed or how much you ultimately pay.
Understanding your full debt position — and your spouse’s — before separation negotiations begin is foundational to any equalization analysis.

Get a complete picture of all debts.
List every liability — mortgage, car loans, credit cards, lines of credit, student loans, CRA balances, and any informal debts owed to family or friends. Include both individual and joint accounts. Many people are surprised to discover debts their spouse has incurred that they were not aware of. Running a credit report on yourself is a practical first step.
Distinguish between individual and joint debt.
Joint debt exposes you to the creditor regardless of any internal agreement about who should pay. If your spouse defaults on a joint credit card or line of credit, the creditor can pursue you for the full amount. Knowing which debts are joint allows you to take steps — closing accounts, refinancing, transferring balances — to limit your ongoing exposure.
Act quickly on joint accounts.
Contact your financial institution as soon as possible after separation to freeze or close joint lines of credit and credit cards. Until you take this step, your spouse can continue to draw on joint credit — and the debt incurred after separation may still affect your financial position.
Document who actually incurred the debt.
Even if a debt is legally in your name, evidence that it was incurred by your spouse for their own purposes — rather than for family needs — may be relevant to how it is addressed in the equalization calculation or the separation agreement.
Consider tax implications.
In some situations, paying off certain debts prior to separation — or structuring their repayment in the separation agreement — has tax consequences. A financial advisor or accountant working alongside your family lawyer can help you identify these.

Mortgage debt.
The mortgage on the family home is addressed as part of the home disposition decision. The current balance, the available equity, and any penalties for early repayment are important context for negotiations. Where one spouse keeps the home, they typically must refinance the mortgage into their sole name — which requires qualifying for the full amount independently.
Joint lines of credit.
Often the fastest-moving liability risk at separation — a spouse can draw the full available balance right up until the account is frozen. Immediate action to freeze or close joint lines of credit is one of the most important practical steps at the point of separation.
Student loans.
Generally treated as the individual debt of the person who incurred them, unless the other spouse can demonstrate they contributed to repayment in a way that creates an equitable interest. Student loans taken during the marriage reduce the debtor spouse’s NFP.
CRA balances and tax arrears.
Outstanding tax liabilities are individual debts that reduce the owing spouse’s NFP. Joint tax issues — including reassessments that apply to both spouses, or situations where both spouses filed jointly — may require joint action and should be identified early.
Business debt.
Debts associated with a business interest are factored into the business valuation and reduce the net value of the business in the equalization calculation. Complex business debt requires specialist legal and accounting advice and early engagement of a business valuator.
Informal loans from family.
Money owed to parents or other family members — including amounts the other spouse may dispute are loans — can be significant. Documentation is critical. See our pages on protecting loans to spouses and advice to parents of spouses for more information.
A well-drafted separation agreement should specifically address every material debt — not just assets. Key provisions include:
Debt allocation.
Each debt should be allocated to a specific spouse with a clear statement of responsibility for ongoing payments, including principal, interest, and any associated costs.
Indemnification.
The spouse taking on a debt should indemnify the other — agreeing to reimburse them for any claims made by the creditor as a result of that debt. This protects the non-responsible spouse if the responsible spouse defaults.
Refinancing obligations.
Where a joint debt exists, the agreement should include a timeline and obligation for the responsible spouse to refinance the debt into their name alone. Without this, the joint obligation may remain indefinitely.
CRA notification.
Where there are joint tax obligations, the agreement should address how these are to be resolved, who is responsible for filing outstanding returns, and how any refunds or amounts owing will be handled.
Important: A separation agreement cannot override your legal liability to a creditor. The agreement creates obligations between you and your spouse — but if your spouse fails to pay a joint debt, the creditor can still pursue you. This is why refinancing and account closure steps are so important.
The cost of addressing debt planning in a separation depends significantly on the complexity of the debts involved and whether matters are resolved by agreement or through litigation.
Early action is consistently more cost-effective. The sooner joint accounts are closed, informal loans are documented, and a debt inventory is prepared, the stronger your position in negotiations.
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You are legally responsible for any debt that is in your name — either individually or jointly. You are not automatically responsible for debts in your spouse’s name alone, even if they were incurred for family purposes. However, joint debts expose you to the full amount regardless of any internal agreement. Knowing which debts are joint and taking steps to close or freeze joint accounts quickly is essential.
The mortgage remains the legal obligation of whoever is on it until it is refinanced or the property is sold. If you are both on the mortgage, you both remain liable to the lender. A separation agreement typically allocates the mortgage to the spouse keeping the home and includes a requirement to refinance within a specified time period to remove the other spouse from liability.
For joint accounts, you can contact your financial institution to freeze or close the account. For individual accounts in your name that your spouse has access to, cancelling that access is important. You cannot prevent your spouse from taking on debt in their own name, but you can document the date of separation clearly so that any debts incurred after that date are allocated to the spouse who incurred them.
An equalization payment is the amount one spouse pays to the other to equalize the growth in their respective net family property values over the course of the marriage. Debts on the date of separation reduce NFP — so the more debt a spouse carries, the smaller their NFP and the smaller any equalization payment they may owe. Understanding your debt position is integral to understanding your equalization exposure.
The cost of a divorce in Ontario depends entirely on the complexity of the issues involved. A simple, uncontested divorce with no property or support disputes can cost as little as $1,500–$3,000 in legal fees plus court filing fees. A contested divorce with division of property, support, and parenting disputes can cost $30,000–$150,000 or more per spouse. Resolving debt and property issues by agreement through a separation agreement is consistently far less expensive than litigation.
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